I'm making up my mind to be happy. This is harder than it sounds. I was reading the blogs from some of the Positive People on the right side of my blog and I got a little perspective. I don't want to be a debbie downer. I want to be a positive person. What would a positive person do? For one thing, they wouldn't wallow in their anger. There is a quote from the Vivi character in the movie Divine Secrets of the Ya Ya Sisterhood. She says, "...You know how I am, I take a problem and chew on it until all the flavor's gone, then I stick it in my hair..." I don't want to do that.
I want to move in a positive direction. And lo and behold, my work is offering two classes on communication. I signed up for both of them. And lo and behold again, my work is offering a class in communication for management and upper management (my boss) is REQUIRED to take it. Fingers crossed, we will all learn something.
I'm still going to have the conversation. I will be respectful. I will be calm. I will be forthcoming.
And I decided to BREATHE today. For 5 minutes I just breathed. Quietly... deeply... yoga-like. Ahhh... I can't give myself away anymore. Perspective... boundaries... peace...
No gum stuck in my hair.
Now I want to watch this movie. I LOVE Ashley Judd and Sandra Bullock. I really love this whole cast.
I want to move in a positive direction. And lo and behold, my work is offering two classes on communication. I signed up for both of them. And lo and behold again, my work is offering a class in communication for management and upper management (my boss) is REQUIRED to take it. Fingers crossed, we will all learn something.I'm still going to have the conversation. I will be respectful. I will be calm. I will be forthcoming.
And I decided to BREATHE today. For 5 minutes I just breathed. Quietly... deeply... yoga-like. Ahhh... I can't give myself away anymore. Perspective... boundaries... peace...
No gum stuck in my hair.
Now I want to watch this movie. I LOVE Ashley Judd and Sandra Bullock. I really love this whole cast.
