tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865699211711235354.post7913759764057006131..comments2023-07-05T10:42:38.326-04:00Comments on Being Happy: Confrontationhappygirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16554653800961247808noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865699211711235354.post-49271594158313968702012-02-07T21:49:46.022-05:002012-02-07T21:49:46.022-05:00I don't like confrontation. I'm not into ...I don't like confrontation. I'm not into people pleasing but am able to walk away from most things that get heavy. Sydhttp://fine-anon.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865699211711235354.post-20524578546336609852012-02-04T22:55:03.734-05:002012-02-04T22:55:03.734-05:00First, you don't strike me as confrontational ...First, you don't strike me as confrontational at all. Second, I wish that I handled confrontation better. I have way too much of that people pleasing going on.Mama Zennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865699211711235354.post-22302766753691331402012-02-04T19:30:20.643-05:002012-02-04T19:30:20.643-05:00It is tough to have to let someone go, even with c...It is tough to have to let someone go, even with cause. It sounds as you did well and the severance package is nice.Jeff Gnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865699211711235354.post-87970035259345817072012-02-04T16:20:23.860-05:002012-02-04T16:20:23.860-05:00Congratulations on the NEW JOB!!Congratulations on the NEW JOB!!happygirlhttp://beinghappygirl.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865699211711235354.post-12263987812119963332012-02-04T16:06:14.828-05:002012-02-04T16:06:14.828-05:00In an interview for a job I JUST GOT (WooHoo!!!) -...In an interview for a job I JUST GOT (WooHoo!!!) - they asked about how I handle confrontation. I HATE direct confrontation - but I learned early if I didn't take truth stands, I wouldn't build the life I wanted. When I taught college comp for years, I learned to handle direct confrontation - got a bit immunized to it - but, though I would rather hide under the bed - nobody grows unless issues are honestly, constructively handled. People are uncomfortable with people like us - and that is just a fact of life. We can either sell out or live the life we were created to live!!!! Without direct confrontation, nobody would ever experience the love of Jesus:)<br /><br />Wishing you a much more encouraging week!!!!Blue Cotton Memoryhttp://bluecottonmemory.wordpress.com/2012/01/24/cry-ye-sarahs-unto-the-lord/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865699211711235354.post-82627627758839932222012-02-04T13:20:10.807-05:002012-02-04T13:20:10.807-05:00You definitely would've had more fun at the zo...You definitely would've had more fun at the zoo.smoothstonesnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865699211711235354.post-86209220707713357712012-02-04T09:57:11.556-05:002012-02-04T09:57:11.556-05:00I have a lot of non-confrontational people in my l...I have a lot of non-confrontational people in my life and it is sad because you can't really express with them how you feel because they are always cowering in the corner. If we don't get out our confrontations it only hurts us in the long run. Stuffing it is the worst possible thing we can do. I always say there's 4 kind of confronters. Aggressive (says whatever, however, no matter who it hurts), Passive (says nothing, stuffs it, and has a lot of pain because of that), Assertive (says what they have to say to rectify a situation without hurtful words and without being passive), Passive-Aggressive (won't say it to a person's face but will passively-aggressively do things and say things to punish the person who they can't confront). I try to be as assertive as I can. :)AmberPamperhttp://www.mydisgruntledlife.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865699211711235354.post-20681596869624752282012-02-04T07:54:13.997-05:002012-02-04T07:54:13.997-05:00hello happy girl,, do you like music?hello happy girl,, do you like music?Ens Iz Herehttp://www.facebook.com/endroesianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865699211711235354.post-68124094988927889202012-02-04T07:50:09.567-05:002012-02-04T07:50:09.567-05:00People tell me that I have a look. Like my eyes sa...People tell me that I have a look. Like my eyes say so much when I'm upset. I think I know what they mean. I do have a video that shows one time when I got upset. I see my eyes, but they don't look as bad as they say.Marizahttp://myownversion.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865699211711235354.post-1035907765532653302012-02-03T21:18:02.159-05:002012-02-03T21:18:02.159-05:00You tell em Happy Girl. Just do it with a smile. b...You tell em Happy Girl. Just do it with a smile. btw...you don't sound a bit confrontational <br />to meElainenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865699211711235354.post-19725781956968946032012-02-03T17:25:08.524-05:002012-02-03T17:25:08.524-05:00haha...there is just something about arguing that ...haha...there is just something about arguing that you are not a confrontational person that tickles me...lol....i think there are def some tough convos that have to be had but that def does not make you confrontational...brian millerhttp://www.waystationone.com/noreply@blogger.com